What's Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome is a psychological condition in which one feels they are not worthy of their success, despite
their knowledge or achievements. It’s common practice for individuals experiencing it to chalk their
accomplishments up to luck or external circumstances. It’s not a diagnosable disorder. Studies have shown
there is a correlation between depression and anxiety. If you experience either of these you are more susceptible to
falling victim to this behavior.
Imposter Syndrome is more likely to occur in marginalized groups but that’s not to say it can’t happen to anyone
at anytime. According to some loose estimates, 70% of people are likely to experiencing it at least once
in their life. And that one time could be enough to shatter the potential of an opportunity. If left unnoticed
it can have a substantial impact on one’s career and performance. Doctors, programmers, artists; It doesn't matter
what field you are pursuing, you are still vulnerable to it.
How To Identify It
Since there is no test or immediate way of diagnosing the disorder, we have to learn to identify it by analyzing ourselves.
There are specific characteristics that might
give light to someone experiencing it. The term was first coined in 1978 by psychologists Suzanna Imes and Pauline
Rose Clance. The irony of it is most people who experience it are well-accomplished, highly intelligent
individuals. They receive some type of recognition for their efforts and start to compare themselves to everyone else.
It’s also very common amongst artists who have received critical acclaim for a piece of work. Since art is completely
subjective it's even worse for them. Why me? All of the hours of work and time put in suddenly disappear from the mind.
Let's Give An Example
Imagine a newfound actor or actress standing up to receive an Oscar. It's been two years in Hollywood and their track record is still
pretty much nonexistent. They we're in the running
with people they have spent their entire life admiring or worshipping. Hollywood veterans so to speak. And to that person's surprise they win the award. Immediately they
might start questioning if they deserve this or it's a mistake. Maybe they saw the other movies and thought they underperformed
comparitively. How could I possibly win this when such amazing, talented people also we're nominated...This is imposter syndrome.
List of Characteristics To Look Out For
- Attributing one’s past successes to luck or other external factors
- Being sensitive to constructive criticism
- Feelings of being found out as a fraud
- Fears that you won’t live up to expectations
Own Your Story & Own Your Success
If you have put in the work and shown signs of success that’s amazing news. Rather than dismiss this though, own it. If you start
to feel bouts of imposter syndrome coming on, stop yourself in real time and reassure yourself that you are deserving.
Coping Mechanisms
There is always a way out of the dirt. The best way to impose changes is to catch yourself in the act and employ the coping strategy of your choice. For
instance, if you find yourself in the moment starting to have thoughts doubting yourself, you can actively tell yourself "I do deserve this because I
have worked hard to get here." By disrupting the chain of thought, you can begin a new one in which you don't fall victim to these negative thoughts.
And yes I understand that this may sound a little straight forward and almost stupid. But you'd be amazed at how quickly the moment comes and goes. Practice
giving yourself words of affirmation during these times. Sometimes the most simple and basic strategy is the best.
There will always be someone who is more talented or experienced than you, and that's OKAY. That doesn’t mean you yourself don’t deserve credit for
your own efforts. Let go of trying to be a perfectionist and start accepting where you are and what you have done. Learn to cultivate a little self-compassion.
Conclusion
Maybe you are at a different point in your own career than where you want to be. Instead of feeling ashamed, turn it into pride and acceptance. We are all only human. Living
in the age of social media where we consume mostly 'highlights' of other people's lives can be extremely toxic. It often leads to feelings of being inadequate or
self-loathing. You belong here just as much as anyone else does and your accomplishments should be celebrated rather than dismissed. Return to the growth-mindset
and learn to see every little success as a stepping stone. Celebrate them now and strive to continue to do better. Most importantly don't fall victim to imposter syndrome.